Thursday, October 15, 2009

"Love"


Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection and attachment. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure ("I loved that meal") to intense interpersonal attraction ("I love my boyfriend"). This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.
As an abstract concept, love usually refers to a deep, ineffable feeling of tenderly caring for another person. Even this limited conception of love, however, encompasses a wealth of different feelings, from the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love to the nonsexual emotional closeness of familial and platonic love to the profound oneness or devotion of religious . Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationship and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.

Saturday, October 10, 2009

"Nuggets of Hope"


Hope is the greatest refining influence in human life. It is the "echo of the spirit" in us and, like other echoes, it calls back the voice of our own desires, only in a more delicate, ethereal tone; and each successive echo is higher up and farther away and more spiritual than the last.









- "He begins to die who quits his desires"
- English proverb

- "Lord, grant that I may always desire more than I accomplish"
- Michelangelo

- "He who wishes to ascend the ladders of the world, will find at the same time the staircase of heaven"
- German proverb

- "Were it not for hope the heart would break"
- Scottish proverb

- "Though hope be a small child she can carry a great anchor"
- English proverb

- "In the kingdom of hope there is no winter"
- Old Russian proverb

- "Hope deferred maketh the heart sick: but when the desire cometh, it is a tree of life"
- Proverb of Solomon

- "A misty morning does not simply a cloudy day"
- Ancient proverb

Thursday, October 8, 2009

"Hope"


All that hopes in the world is directly or indirectly brought about by hope. Not a stroke of work would be done were it not in hopes of some glorious reward. It matters not that it generally paves the way to disappointment. Phoenix - like it rises from its ashes and bids us forget the disappointment of the present in the contemplation of future delights. Hope, then, is the principal antidote which keeps our hearts from bursting under the pressure of evils.

True hope is based on energy of character. A string mind always hopes, and has always cause to hope, because it know the mutability of human affairs, and how slight a circumstances may change the whole course of events.

It is the best to hope only for things possible and probable; he that hopes too much shall deceive himself at last, especially if his industry does not go along with his hopes, for hope without action is a barren undo er.

Hope awakens courage, but despondency is the last of all evils; it is the abandonment of good - the giving up of the battle of life with dead nothingness. When the other emotions are controlled by events, hope remains buoyant and undismayed - unchanged, amidst the most adverse circumstances.

Hopes lives in the future, but dies in the present. Its estate is one of the expectancy. Hope calculates its schemes for a long and durable life, presses forward to imaginary points of bliss, and grasps at impossibilities, and, consequently, very often ensnares men into beggary, ruin, and dishonor.

Sunday, October 4, 2009

"It's all about MUSIC"


Music is an art of sound in time that expresses ideas and emotions in significant forms through the elements of rhythm, melody, harmony, and color. It adds life to every individual. MUSIC HISTORY Music history is the study of how music has evolved over time. It is somewhat related to the fields of musicology and ethnomusicology.

Music is found in every known culture, past and present, varying wildly between times and places. Around 50,000 years ago, early modern humans began to disperse from Africa, reaching all the habitable continents. Since all people of the world, including the most isolated tribal groups, have a form of music, scientists conclude that music must have been present in the ancestral population prior to the dispersal of humans around the world.

Consequently music must have been in existence for at least 50,000 years and the first music must have been invented in Africa and then evolved to become a fundamental constituent of human life.

A culture's music is influenced by all other aspects of that culture, including social and economic organization and experience, climate, and access to technology. The emotions and ideas that music expresses, the situations in which music is played and listened to, and the attitudes toward music players and composers all vary between regions and periods.

PREHISTORY

The origin of music are lost deep in prehistoric times. Probably the earliest forms of music were songs, possibly accented by the clapping of hands. Most likely the first instruments were percussion instruments, maybe a hollow trunk, stones hit together, or other things that are useful to create rhythm, but not always melody. Thirty-thousand-year-old bone flutes have been found in archeological sites; the design seems to be similar to that of the recorder.

EARLY MUSIC
Early music is a general term used to describe music in the European classical tradition from after the fall of the Roman Empire
, in 476 CE, until the end of the Baroque era in the middle of the 18 century. Music within this enormous span of time was extremely diverse, encompassing multiple cultural traditions within a wide geographic area; many of the cultural groups out of which medieval Europe developed already had musical traditions, about which little is known. What unified these cultures in the Middle Ages was the Roman Church, and its music served as the focal point for musical development for the first thousand years of this period. Very little non-Christian music from this period survived, due to its suppression by the Church and the absence of music notation; however, folk music of modern Europe probably has roots at least as far back as the Middle Ages.

Sunday, September 13, 2009

"Laugh - It's for You"




Go ahead and add laughter to the list of factors that contribute to the healthy lifestyle. Researchers at Loma Linda University Medical Center are looking at how a person's mental state and perspective on life affects the functions of the immune system. Specifically, Lee Berk, Dr. P.H., and his colleagues are studying how "a merry heart" (that's happiness/mirthful laughter) can actually bolster the body's ability to prevent and combat illness and diseases.

Intrigued by the awareness that stress and depression can lower the effectiveness of the body's immune system, the researchers wanted to see if the opposite is true - whether positive emotions and attitudes can improve immune system capabilities.

In the study, scientists measured blood stress hormone levels of a group of medical students before, during and after the students watched a humorous video. Results showed that mirthful laughter brings about significant changes in certain components of the endocrine system, believed to be related to the body's ability to fight diseases.

For instance, the students experienced a reduction in their levels of blood cortisol. Cortisol, released during moments of stress (distress), can reduce the circulation of lymphocytes (immune cells) in the bone marrow and interfere with there normal functioning in the immune system.

Researchers also found that mirthful laughter modifies some classical stress hormone levels in ways that may positively influence the immune system.

Sunday, August 2, 2009

"Family"

"Family is a picture, treasure it and hold on to it forever!!!"


Family is a basic social group united through broad of kinship or marriage.



Its core form, the nuclear family, consists of a man and woman who live togethe
r in a socially recognized marriage with children. The nuclear family is the main unit in many societies. In others, it is a subordinate part of an extended family, which also consists of grandparents and other relatives.





A
n extended family is more often found in rural than in urban settings and is less common now than several decades ago.






A third family unit that is becoming more prevalent is the single-parent family, in
which children live with an unmarried mother or father.




Historical studies have shown that family structure has been less changed by urbanization and industrialization than was once supposed. The nuclear family was the most prevalent pre-industrial unit and is still the basic unit of social organization. The modern family differs from early traditional forms, however, in its functions, compositions, and life cycle and in the roles of husbands and wives.

The only function of the family that continues to survive all change is the provision of affection and emotional support by and to all its members, particularly infants and young children. Specialized institutions now perform many of the other functions that were once performed by the agrarian family: economic production, education, religion, and recreation.
Jobs are usually separate from the family grou
p; family members often work in different occupations and in locations away from the home.

Education is provided by the state or by private groups. Religious training and recreational activities are available outside the home, although both still have a place in family life. The family is still responsible for the socialization of the children. Even in this capacity, however, the influence of peers and of the mass media has assumed a large role.

By the 1970s, the prototypical nuclear family had yielded somewhat to modified structures including the one-parent family, the step family, and the childless family.

One-parent families in the past were usually the result of the death of a spouse. Now, however, must one-parent families are the result of divorce, although a few are created when unmarried mothers bear children. In 1986 more than one out of the four children lived with only-one parent usually the mother. Most one-parent families, however, eventually became two-parent families through marriage. A step family is created by a new marriage of a single parent. It may consist of a parent and children and a childless spouse, a parent and children and a spouse whose children live elsewhere, or to joined one-parent families. In a step family problems in relations between non-natural parents and children may generate tension; the difficulties can be especially great in the marriage of the single parents when the children of both parents live with them as siblings.
Childless families are increasingly the result of deliberate choice. For many years the proportion of couples who were childless declined steadily as venereal and other diseases that cause infertility were conquered. In the 1970s, however, the changes in the status of woman reversed this trend. Couples often elect to have no children or to postpone having them until their careers are well established.



"For You My Friend"


A CUP OF FRIENDSHIP







A Friend is a Treasure A friend is someone we turn to, when our spirits need a lift. A friend is someone we treasure, for our friendship is a gift. A friend is someone who fills our lives, with beauty, joy and grace. And make the world we live in, a better and happier place.






A friend is like a shade tree
Beside a summer way.
A friend is like the sunshine
That makes a perfect day.
A friend is like a flower
That's worn close to the heart.
A friend is like a treasure
With which one will not part.







Tuesday, July 28, 2009

"Poems for Friendship"



THOUGHT FOR FRIENDSHIP

friendship is not just the name of an
ordinary feeling. but it is the name of the feelings of understanding, honesty and frankness between two persons. and these feelings keep the two very special persons bounded together and such a friendship lies in two of us.


Friend

A friend is a person
to laugh and cry with,
An inspiration,
Someone who lends a helping hand,
though friends may not be forever,
And they may not end up together,
the memories of a true friendship will
last forever.
A friend is not a shadow nor a servant
But someone who hold
a piece of a person in his heart.
Someone who shares a smile,
Someone who brightens up your day
What makes a person a friend?
Is by saying your Love will stay.


TRUE FRIENDSHIP
True friends are for life
Until the end
They're more than special
They're your bestest friends.

They're the ones you can go to
When you're in despair
The ones that'll help you
Even when you got gum in your hair!

They're the ones who'll laugh
And go laughing with you all through the night
The ones who'll help you
Help you with all their might

To have a good friend
You have to be one
So be nice to one another
So you can be friends forever
And that\'s how to be the best friend you can be.


A BEST FRIEND
A best friend
is always there,
whether you need advice,
or a pep talk,
or even a shoulder to cry on.
A best friend
listens with her heart
and is always honest with you,
even though the truth
may not be
what you want to hear.
A best friend
knows all your secrets,
understands your fears
shares your dreams.
A best friend
never stops believing in you
even if you give up
on yourself.
you are
that kind of friend
to me.
And no matter what happens,
you always will be.
You are my best friend....
my forever friend.





Tuesday, July 21, 2009

"Life is Priority"

We argue over what should take priority - life or choice, but if there is no life, then there can be no choice. I have to be alive in order to be able to choose. And if I could choose would I choose abortion for myself? We are not free to choose everything we want. We must all accept some restrictions in our freedoms. We are not even allowed to kill ourselves.

Now, I realize that questions are raised about rape, incest, abnormalities, finances, quality of life, etc. And there is no doubt that our sinful world poses many dilemmas. That is why Christians need an anchor point when it comes to issues of the beginning and the ending of life. Since only God can give life, it behooves us to be very careful how quickly we are willing to take away that life.

The cross reveals how much God is concerned about life. Jesus sacrificed his life that we might be able to choose life. Should not we also be prepared to sacrifice to save the life of the unborn? But even more, our churches should provide financial, emotional, and physical support to those families who decide to keep the child. It is not enough to be against something; we must also be for something.

Everyone should give a high value to life (abortion only when the life of the mother is at stake) but leave it up to each individual as to how he or she will practice that deal.

Sunday, July 19, 2009

"There is no place like home"

Many people say and think what is the true meaning of home. Other may say it is a place of residence or refuge and comfort. It is usually a place in which an individual or a family can rest and be able to store personal property. The other people say that home is where they grew up or where they lived, a place that brings back old memories or feelings, and a home can even be a time rather than an actual place. But for me, it is a place where you can find love, happiness and peace. The Home is the hub of society. Strong, loving, happy, healthy homes make a strong, loving, happy, healthy church, community and nation. It is a place you can find the respect of the family between the husband and wife, and between the parents and children.A place where I can do anything. The most comfortable place for me. The place where I belong.

"The Sexes: So What's the Big Difference?"

Seen These Differences?

FEMALES are more sensitive to feelings and situation.
Females become more apart of people they know and the things that surround them. They build relationships. They get together with friends and talk.
Females become easily hurt when criticized about a house or clothes, because they feel these things are an extension of themselves.
Females need time to adjust to changes and new surroundings. They focus on immediate consequences for themselves and their family.
Females have an intuitive nature. A female might say "I feel like we shouldn't do this" or "I don't feel right about that." This is a sense God has implanted into her.
Females are more verbally expressive.



MALES Males might not realize they're trampling on feelings and causing hurt. Males aren't as aware - though they can be made aware with a female's love and sensitivity. Males may relate to people, but they usually don't want to become as closely entwined with them. They get together with friends and do something. Males tends to be natter-of-fact about these things, taking an attitude of "so what?" Males can adjust more immediately, because they focus on the benefits. Once the male has adjusted, he might have a hard time understanding why the female is holding back. Males don't seem to have this intuition, and sometimes think females use this as an excuse to be stubborn or not to think "rationally." So the male might go ahead and do what he wants to do, or verbally hurt the female. Males are physically expressive.

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

"I am twenty"



There's no such happy moment
Than of seeing Nanay smile
Those different motherly grin she had with his daughter
And that infant in the crib was me.

Neighbors almost utter every amazing word
Which they could ever say to a baby,
They have all approved that I'm beautiful
And that beautiful baby was me.

When eras ripened the seed within me,
There changed everything, everybody
Seasons began to throw a filthy dust on my face
The dirt of this very earth that made the good-looking dreadful.
And that what they have said about me
Now, I am Twenty

Where are their impressing utterances?
Every sound of those went void and dead
Of which this day
I know in my heart I needed the most.

I am a woman of dream, despite the mess
That my acquaintances see beyond my eyes
But still they don't feel the desire of my heart
That anchors the beautiful thing inside of me
Even before Nanay and Tatay craft my being.

I believe that I'm still beautiful
Just as I see the golden promise
Over the fields and the hills
I am twenty and few days from now
I can still be more beautiful
More than of what they once saw in the crib.